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  • Jun 18, 2012, 03:33 AM
    TEDDY95
    What to do when my girlfriend is hurt, mad and wants to break up?
    My girlfriend is mad at me because I told about our relationship to everyone and because of that one of her friends who is boy had until her mother and she got caught and she got scolded and she lost her parents trust and also she had heard some bad things about me which are not true. So she is hurt and mad at me and she told me that she wants to break up with me because she doesn't want to lose any more parental trust so she told me to be a cool friend of hers

    I know she still loves me tell me what to do to take her back to my side please.
  • Jun 18, 2012, 06:45 AM
    talaniman
    I would wait until she cools down, then talk to her, and understand she is doing as her parents want her to do so she won't get in any more trouble.

    Make sense? What's more important, what her parents say, or your hurting heart?

    How old are you both?
  • Jun 18, 2012, 10:36 AM
    mmresd
    If she wants to break up, regardless for the reason, you accept it, go no contact, and start moving on. I would agree with trying what talaniman said ONCE, but if it doesn't work, then definitely move on completely.
  • Jun 18, 2012, 09:58 PM
    Jimmy78
    Look give her what she asked for, best part about her wanting to break up is when the smoke clears and she see that she made a angry choice that was a mistake. Tell her to kiss your and move on.
  • Jun 19, 2012, 12:52 AM
    Nick Pettr
    Love is need space and trust each other.
  • Jun 22, 2012, 08:08 AM
    teddy1995
    I'm 17. Its like this she doesn't wants me to get mad at her, she massage me all the time and she still cares about me but now we are like friends I want her to be my girlfriend not a friend

    I'm the same guy I can't log in through TEDDY95

    I can't lose her tell me a way to get her back to my side I know she still loves me but she won't let it come out
  • Jun 22, 2012, 11:34 AM
    bonita82
    A breakup is like a broken Mirror. It is better to leave it broken than hurt yourself to fix it
  • Jun 22, 2012, 02:10 PM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    So she is hurt and mad at me and she told me that she wants to break up with me because she doesn't want to lose any more parental trust so she told me to be a cool friend of hers
    Teddy, I don't think she can give you what you want if her parents are going to stand in the way. Unless you get them to accept you, forget it!! You put her in a bad place making her choose.

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