what to do with this problem??

Cynthia_09 · #1 Jun 30, 2009, 11:10 PM

I'm a very extra jealous person I can't stand girls in bikinis or half naked. I can't watch a movie or tv because I think that my boyfriend wants them or imagines them naked. We can't even go to water parks because I think that he wants those girls. I don't understand why I'm this way if he never cheated on me and I never ever catch him actually looking at girls or anything.

justcurious55 · Jun 30, 2009, 11:48 PM

you really need to work on this. if you don't, you're likely to drive him away. i'd look into therapy. get to the bottom of your issues and work them out.

Gemini54 · Jul 1, 2009, 12:10 AM

Are you serious? Guys are always going to look at girls, and there are heaps of half naked girls paraded in the media the so you'd better get over it quickly.

If you want your relationships to last, I'd get some professional counselling now. There is nothing that will kill a relationship quicker that the green eyed monster.

This is your issue, so take responsibility for it, and do something about it.

You'll be much happier in the future if you do.

Romefalls19 · Jul 1, 2009, 05:47 AM

You need to go and seek professional help and quick, this is out of control. This is your problem and you can't face it alone, believe me I tried(wasn't quite as bad as you) and I failed, until I got help

slapshot_oi · Jul 1, 2009, 06:20 AM

That sounds more like a phobia instead of jealousy.

Being this anxious, your best shot is to see a psychologist.



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