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I am 16 years old, and I have been wondering what guys want in girls. You always see discussions about what girls want in guys, but guys have to want something too. I always seem to go for the wrong guys. I lost my virginity when I was 15 and I thought I loved him. He only wanted my body though. He broke up with me soon after, and many of the guys I go out with seem to only want the same thing. I try not to make the same mistake twice, but if I want to get a guy who isn't only in the relationship for my body, I have to know what he wants. Can somebody tell me what guys look for in the girls they like?
I think different guys want different things. I can't say much about guys since I hardly any get on a date,lo. But, I want to tell you not every guy is the same , some are after sex, some are not all after sex, guys don't understand guys either. I wouldn't say all guys are jerks, that's all they want. I am sure they are sensitive and they their own feelings too. They of course want a girl who cares about them and loves them.
Don't make the same mistake again, when u want to have a bf next time, make sure ask around/his friend what kind of history he has and u need to develop the sense of telling who is a jerk or not at the beginning of the date.
Good luck, sweetheart! Be careful and protect yourself, but don't close the door.
Remember, everything takes time!
In a 'girlfriend' I would look for someone with similar interests or willingness to take an interest in what I do for fun. Someone who I personally find attractive in allot of ways. Someone who has similar goals in life as myself. Trust, honesty, fun, intelligent. I guess mainly someone who I can have fun with whilst being myself. Someone who is on the same level as me I guess who's willing to put in equal effort as myself without games! Someone to grow and learn to love. At the start its all a bit of mystery :P and it should be fun, I think love will come with time.
At 16 you shouldn't be worrying about boyfriends, you don't need anyone to be happy. Once your happy alone having a great life, one day you'll fall in love and you won't look back. Its up to you though if you go looking or let it come to you.
At 16 you shouldn't be worrying about boyfriends, you don't need anyone to be happy. Once your happy alone having a great life, one day you'll fall in love and you won't look back. Its up to you though if you go looking or let it come to you.
Sounds right! At 16, u don't need to worry about it at all. And find the boy who are in the same level as you are if u do.
Btw, Jiser...did u read my post "if I am so wonder , why am I still single"...what do you think the problem is please? Any advice, comments will be greatly appreciated by nice springgirl.
I think your worrying to much. Trying to hard. You are who you are, enjoy life and someone will come to you. You seem like a great girl with allot going for you. Someone will one day want to be part of your fun!
Doing everything in your power to meet new people, join clubs, start new sports, traveling the world will do you allot of good in your confidence and meeting people. Being friends with groups of guys, one will no doubt like you. I am sure with time that someone special will come into your life. Go with the flow for now, Its probably a healthier attitude to have, than wanting to look all the time. To much stress!
I think your worrying to much. Trying to hard. You are who you are, enjoy life and someone will come to you. You seem like a great girl with allot going for you. Someone will one day want to be part of your fun!
Doing everything in your power to meet new people, join clubs, start new sports, traveling the world will do you allot of good in your confidence and meeting people. Being friends with groups of guys, one will no doubt like you. I am sure with time that someone special will come into your life. Go with the flow for now, Its probably a healthier attitude to have, than wanting to look all the time. To much stress!
Thank you for your kind advice. I think I do think too much sometimes.^^; I am outgoing and I know a lot of ppl and I like to make friends with everyone. DO u think that is b/c I don't smoke, drink, party, so guys think I am too good for them? or I am not a fun person? I make them laugh to death though.
Just go with the flow! Nothing wrong with you, try a bit of flirting.. Not sure how, go google how to flirt with guys. Bit of touching, subtle comments etc go far if you like the person.
thank you so much you guys. I don't feel complete without someone though. I am such a people person, and my friends are great, but I want something more than just a friend. I just seem to attract the wrong guys. My guy friends are nice guys and all, but Its not like they like me. Guys usually can't seem to get past my looks. I just want to find a guy who can.
Very unhealthy to feel like you need someone to be happy. In time you will, your 16, allot of guys aren't going to be the most mature type. In life you will meet allot of good guys and bad guys but remember you will meet a special person, just remember to have your own life at the same time.
I know it isn't healthy, but thats how I am. and obviously they arent all mature. I know enough of them to know that. I just love to know that somebody feels something more for me than just friendship. I guess its really just reassurance that I like.
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