Very Confused

beaumo · #1 Jan 27, 2008, 05:37 PM

so, i have been dating this guy for almost 3 years, now. he has been divorced for 7 years. during our relationship, i have caught him watching old home videos with his ex-wife and family and just recently, he took a pair of her underwear and bra from her home. i am really sicked out about it, what do you all think?

ISneezeFunny · Jan 27, 2008, 05:54 PM

uh...yep.

the video with ex wife and family...seems to be just nostalgic. if he's watching videos of JUST his wife...red flag. but family...who knows, maybe just the nostalgia.

as far as the undies + bra from her house, ...run.

ampersandra · Jan 27, 2008, 11:31 PM

I think you should ask him about it. Try not to sound condescending though.

TrueFaith · Jan 28, 2008, 01:29 AM

agreed talk to him. i know i look at old girlfriend pics. but thats just me thinking back to good times. i do that even if im with my current girlfriend its a thing..

but the underwear thing sounds very strange

i would talk with him and come back and let us know what he says

Regards



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