what to do.

kildarebabe · Mar 19, 2008, 07:09 AM

i love my boyfriend so much but feel like i'm giving more than he is to our relationship....
5 out of 7 nights of the week i spend in his houose but he wont make an effort to come see me when i cant get over to his.... he says he cant live with me cos he doesnt want to leave his mother on her own... i have decided not to push this... he car is useless and i want to sell mine... we had decided on buying a big one together but when it came to the time to decide on what car he opted out.... i'm slowly losing my mind.... i love him but feel like i'm wasting my time sometimes as he doesnt make a big effort for me....

some of my friends say i'm pushing it but i dont think so... i am just thinking about the future and i dont see any harm in it....

any ideas?

yeye82 · Mar 20, 2008, 12:52 PM

My experience... it's not about who's right and/or who's wrong... accept the fact that your methodologies are not working and make changes. It's easier to make changes to yourself than changing others. Change - start from what's inside you (your thoughts), and everything (outside) will unfold itself.



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