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whats going on people this is my first time on the site but i came to you guys because i figure you can help me. I'll say probably a month ago i meet this very beautiful young lady and she got my full attention but to make long story short we kinda got into each other. We never had sex and i kissed her 2 times in one day. Sounds good but this is where its about to get hard for 2 years she had an boyfriend now i dont want to be a homewrecker but she said i already was i dont know what that is supposed to mean but she said it she also said that she was having very strong feelings for me saying she is going to break up with her boyfriend. but for some odd reason i have the feeling that she is not going to do it she tells me she wants me she doesnt have the spark for her boyfriend anymore but she is still with this guy. she also told me that she was going to make up her mind on friday whats today friday and i havent heard anything yet. When i talk to her about our future she says that she can see us being together for a very long time (forever)and i also feel the same way she is a virgo im a cancer and we just have that certain connection i told her i love because i really do and she really loves me what should i do im so confused should i wait to see what happens with her and her boyfriend or should i step out of the relationship
Back off until she breaks up with her boyfriend. Make it clear to her that you will not continue to see each other until that happens. If she has the feelings for you that she claims to have then she'll have no trouble breaking up with him to be with you. If she won't break up with him then that lets you know where you stand.
hmmmm this is a hard one, well for a start why would she call you a home wrecker, if shes not happy with her partner then you have done nothing wrong but fall in love, but to be honest it sounds like shes just having you letting you hang which isint fair, maybe shes finding it hard to leave him or maybe shes so settled that she doesnt wanna leave someone shes comfortable with even if she doesnt have that spark with him, if shes just leaving you hanging there the maybe it just isint worth it and i know its hard when your in love but there are other people who will love you and wont leave you not knowing whats going on, if she does leave him then go you and i hope you two are very happy together.
I went through an identical phase with a girl i met 2 years ago. She had a boyfriend and kept telling everyone she was going to leave him for me, so i waited and waited. I then couldn't keep this going anymore so i asked her straight is it me or him? And she said she couldn't hurt her boyfriend even tho she knew i'd be a 100 times better. (job, car etc.) She was stringing me along, and she wouldnt stop phoning n texting saying ' dont be mad at me, i dont want to lose u as a friend' It's all bullsh*t so just be careful. I could be wrong don't forget, but this story caught my eye so i just thought i'd tell you what happened to me. DON'T WAIT AROUND FOR HER. LEAVE HER TO DECIDE, AND REMEMBER NC!
You are the kite on a string which extends from her left hand. If you could only see she's holding another spool of string with her other hand. These people are not so rare and have been around for thousands of years. They feed on "sparks" and when she no longer feels that spark she simply pulls out another kite and gives it flight which brings on a brand new fire. Cut that string and see who falls the farthest.
Just my opinion, I don't think you should get involved with her, I say this because you realize she would be leaving this guy for you which is a already unhealthy because of the fact that she has commited some form of infidelity to her boyfriend by allowing herself to fall for you. Secondly you will be on the rebound, when you swing from one unstable branch to another you may have a tough landing. When people break up with someone they need a break to find themselves, it is not wise to leave one relationship to another without getting over the first one. It may not work.. You might not even trust her, because if she did this to this man who is to say she won't do it to you. I know we all feel it won't happen to me because she/he loves me so much... So think about what you really want, what if she leaves him for you? And you realize that it was so much better when she was with him, the chase is always better than the catch... I strongly advice you move on...
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