I really need some advice. My ex from 4 years ago and I had been hanging out/hooking up over the last month. I ended up telling him I loved him and he said he loved me but it's not the right time. So I didn't talk to him for 1.5 weeks, deciding to just leave it alone. I ran into him at a party and he blurted out "I love you" to me. We talked that night and the next day and decided that, while now is not the right time, that we do love eachother and we'll wait it out.
He then texted me a couple days suring the next week and we joked around. Then we started talking and he started saying he wasn't sure, ready and either of us could meet someone tomorrow and that he needs to concentrate on work now. I told him I couldn;t talk to him for a while and he said he understood but for me that I know how he feels about me and he knew we would talk soon.
Then I ran into him a couple days later, barely said hi and proceeded to drink to much to the point where I called him (I don't remember, honestly). He called me the next morning and I invited him over to come cuddle with me. He came over and we hooked up. I told him I had no expectations with respect to him and he said "no expectations right now". We had fun, watched football, joked around then he left, kissing me goodbye.
I sent him a goofy text message a couple days later and he replied right away. I have not heard from him since. I have decided to really back off and not contact him at all because I realize I deserve to be treated like a lady and deserve to treat myself like one (no more casual hookups). My question: have I completely ruined it with him or do you think, sometime in the future he may come around??
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