he left me when i needed him the most when i had suffered with him been there for him we lost our baby 2months later he left why?

califdadof3

It might help if you can define your loss alittle closer. Was it miscarriage or premature or sids ?

sorry for your loss and for having to ask but that could bring some more understanding so your question can get answered.

Romefalls19

Is there a reason why he left you? Personally, I have to ask, why would you want to be with someone who abandons you when you need them the most? I understand it's a hard time but if he's going to run away when things get tough, is this really someone you want to pursue a life with?

JudyKayTee

I see on the other thread that the baby died at 4 months - no answer so far as to whether it was SIDS.

It is not unusual for marriages/relationships to break up when there is serious illness or death in the immediate family. Perhaps the boyfriend simply couldn't handle his grief, perhaps he was looking for a way out.

He is the only one who knows. Have you asked him?

Foxygalady

the baby was born 7weeks before they told me she died because of bronco phnumonia.iI asked him why he left he just sent me a message saying i must not tell myself tht he doesnt love me but its just that wit me he doesnt invest so he better leaves alove i could not understand what he meant by invest because currently he is not working.i have tried to date but i get angry or i just dont show up for the date i keep hoping he will come back because i deeply love him

amicon

Have you had any bereavement councelling to help you cope with over the loss of your child?