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Old Mar 14, 2007, 01:24 PM
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wat shall i do?

I Have Loved This Guy For 2 Years Now .... And He Knows But Stil He Dose Everything To Hurt Me Instead Of Callin Me He Call Some Other Chick
I Sit At Night Cryin .... And Hopin That He Wil Soon Come To Me... But Nothing..... I Cant Take It Anymore He Is My First Love Crush ...... I Ave Done Very Thing To Try And Make Hime Love Me The Way I Do ....wat Wil I Do Help Me

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Old Mar 14, 2007, 01:25 PM   #2  
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You cant make someone love you. This bloke clearly has no feelings for you, at least not in the way you want him to, so best thing to do would be forget about him and fond someone who isnt going to treat you so badly.

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Old Mar 14, 2007, 01:36 PM   #3  
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i ave tried u c ... but i cant ... its hard.... i cry at ni and ask myself y i love em ... and any time i try 4getin em .... it jus makes me like em even more and he lives so far thats the excuse he gives me .... and on saturday i'm goin over to my nana and he lives ova der wat do u think i should do ..... he expects to sleep wit me.....
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Dont sleep with him, he doesnt love you, he is using you for sex and then shoving you aside once he has what he wants. Ask yourself why you love him? Why do you love someone who treats you so badly. Trust me that is not love, its being scared to be alone.
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thanks so much .......but ave u gone true this b4 coz u sound like it happend to u ...... it's realy helpfull.....but wat do u think i should do wen i c em....
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Old May 14, 2007, 04:37 PM   #6  
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he's playin hard to get...let him no u like him flirt with him and wen he finally gives in don't go at it play hard to get just like he did to u and he will fall madly in love with you like you did to him

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Don't sleep with him, it would give you no self-worth and he will never think of you as anything but someone to sleep with. Obviously, he knows you like him and is taking advantage of it to sleep with you. I'm srry, but i don't think he really likes you. Tell yourself he isn't worth you cryin over and act like you don't care about him. He doesn't deserve you, he isn't a nice guy if he treats you badly. You don't deserve to be treated like that.
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First of all -- CALM DOWN!!!! It's a boy. There are millions of them.

I have to agree with what everyone else has said. DON'T SLEEP WITH HIM!!! I'm assuming you're physically attracted to him and you've convinced yourself you're in love with him so this may be very hard to do. I know how it is. Your mind says no and then he says something that completely changes your mind and when you wake up in the morning he's gone and the next thing you know he's treating you like something stuck to the bottom of his shoe.

The best answer is to stay away from him. Just leave him alone. Don't call him, don't go see him, don't ask about him, nothing. Move on with your life. If he really has any interest in you at all he'll come to you. Then you lay it on the line. You tell him how it's gonna be. You tell him how he needs to treat you. And you tell him unless he gives you 110% of what you're asking for he's not worth your time. You hold head up proud and go and cry in your pillow.

Sometimes we don't feel like we're worth everything that we want. But these days are times you'll never be able to get back and never be able to make up for. You need to stand strong and DEMAND that you get respect, caring and understanding from the men you're going to be with!!! It may be hard and it may make you sad sometimes but in the end when you find a guy that is willing to give you all that you deserve it will be worth more than you can imagine right now.
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I feel your pain, and I know how hard it is when that first love betrays you and uses you. You must leave him alone, or he will do it again. Sorry but hold your head up, and learn from this and know better next time.There will be a next time, and there are a lot of good guys out there. Hang in there, it will get better.
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