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I want to save my relationship

Asked Apr 22, 2008, 11:36 AM — 18 Answers
I have a boyfriend that I have been on and off with for 12 years. I am 25 years old so is he. I need to try to save this relationship. I am afraid he might try to find someone else. He broke up with me on Friday but we decided to work on things... Please help me I don't know what to do and this is the last try. Oh and he is also talking to a girl. Which he told me about. So at least he was truthful right? And every time we break up he comes crying to me. HELP

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Apr 22, 2008, 12:04 PM
You have known each other on and off for 12 years, if it was going to be something I think it would have been before now. You might have to accept that it isn't going in that direction. Could you just be good friends?
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Apr 22, 2008, 12:10 PM
No we tried that and we just wind up being together again. There is something there I just have to find it again.. I love his so much.
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Apr 22, 2008, 12:44 PM
Be careful. I'm kind of going through a similar stage. We ended up staying friends. We became better friends then went back to dating.. Now are back to being friends. There's always that chemistry two people feel, mainly because they are comfortable with each other. But girls see the closeness as a relationship and something more, where as a guy may see it as just another way of showing I care. No strings attached. If that works for you, then great. If it doesn't, let him know there is no such thing as a free ride with you. Try to find out what he thinks of you first. Does he see you as a really good friend or something more?
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Apr 22, 2008, 12:50 PM
He told me he loves me more then anything. He can't see marrying or having kids with anyone but him. And every time we break up he wants me back.. He told me if I leave he can't help if he comes after me again. He loves me and that will never change.. So what do I do with that? Please I don't know.
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Apr 22, 2008, 12:54 PM
Sweetheart if he loves you more than anything... Then he wouldn't be talking to someone else. This is going to hurt.. But it sounds like he's holding on to you as a reserve. He wants to see what else is out there for him and if he doesn't find anything better, then he'll settle for you. Don't be that one he settles for. If he is talking to someone else.. Then you do the same. Find someone else. Don't loose your friendship, but don't keep your hopes too high. You never know.. You mite just meet someone much much better. And if he truly does love you, he'll come back for good.
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Apr 22, 2008, 01:00 PM
I know this I guess it is just to hard to let him go we just bought a house 4 months ago and I don't want to lose my home... I guess I am just praying it works out now.
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Apr 22, 2008, 01:02 PM
I hope and pray it works out for you too. But you will need to be strong... All I can say is keep your eyes open. Think with your mind.. Don't let your heart lead you right now. Just be careful. Its tough I know. But God will defin. Help you through it. All the very best.
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Apr 22, 2008, 01:05 PM
Thank you so much
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Apr 22, 2008, 11:26 PM
Well my advice is 4 you 2 talk 2 that person. Tell them how you feel about them and the relationship.
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