Hello bonnieclyde_02! Welcome to AMHD! :)
Firstly, your question should be in the
relationships section. Here is for saying hi and giving a brief introduction.
Then, I would request you to give more information, such as your qualifications concerning your work question (I'm sure many members on here will be able to help then) and also about your relationship. How are we supposed to tell about the 'your girl' when you provided no information about your 'friendship' apart from the fact that she's got a boyfriend?
For my opinion, if she really loves you, she won't be with the one she's with now, unless something important happened.
EDIT: This post was made when the thread was in the introductions section, explaining the 'welcome' and 'your question should be here'