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Ok first off guys and gals. dont get angry with me
im not shallow, im trying to break the habit of that! because i found out that 90% of the time people im normally with are insanely hot but insane!
ok so im a 26 year old. attritive guy. i always went with the most popular girls in school and the best looking girls in the work place. it was my thing. envy of my friends. but i found that this life is pretty empty
anyway if had some fun times as of late.
and im with this new girl. she chased me a lot. so i thought why not ill give it a go. and i think i found someone i can really connect with on a personal level. and i must say i really really like it.
but she knows the type of girls iv been with and. she goes why are you with me when you could be with the .. Pretty.. types. i told her that its not that important.
now she isnt ugly by no sens. but she isnt that typ of girl i would go for. now before people start saying dont be with her then if you dont think she is pretty or your type, im trying to break a habbit, and i like being with this girl.. but heres the thing.
is it wrong to want to make her more pretty? like have her workout in the gym with me. and get ya hair done etc?
she knows what im like. vain and shallow but i am trying to change i dont think someone who is like that. would be on a site like this.
do you think this is wrong?
as i said girls and guys dont get to angry with me about this post. it shows im growing up and looking for something more than just a hot chick.
Most girls want my dad as much as they want me.
Anybody seen that supposedly 50 year old chick doing the bowflex or total gym or whatever commercials? Her faded beauty can rescue me from ugly chicks any day of the week.
The Pretty girl bad persoanlity means ugly person thing
iv never heard that before
thanks for that jewl im all fixed
Anyway guys this is over and done with now. i spoke with her we are fine im happy she is happy
Im not going to get into a circular argument with you lot again LoL
Enough said
To bad you didn't try to fix it before asking our opinion. You opened up a huge can of worms when you posted your message, it's a little late to back down now because you don't like what we have to say. I know that you find our honesty hard to swallow, you believe that you are such a great guy, you expected us all to agree, sorry, we all have opinions of our own. You were man enough to ask for our opinions, now be man enough to take them. And because you're so fond of them here's a smiley face for you.
Ok first off guys and gals. dont get angry with me
im not shallow, im trying to break the habit of that! because i found out that 90% of the time people im normally with are insanely hot but insane!
ok so im a 26 year old. attritive guy. i always went with the most popular girls in school and the best looking girls in the work place. it was my thing. envy of my friends. but i found that this life is pretty empty
anyway if had some fun times as of late.
and im with this new girl. she chased me a lot. so i thought why not ill give it a go. and i think i found someone i can really connect with on a personal level. and i must say i really really like it.
but she knows the type of girls iv been with and. she goes why are you with me when you could be with the .. Pretty.. types. i told her that its not that important.
now she isnt ugly by no sens. but she isnt that typ of girl i would go for. now before people start saying dont be with her then if you dont think she is pretty or your type, im trying to break a habbit, and i like being with this girl.. but heres the thing.
is it wrong to want to make her more pretty? like have her workout in the gym with me. and get ya hair done etc?
she knows what im like. vain and shallow but i am trying to change i dont think someone who is like that. would be on a site like this.
do you think this is wrong?
as i said girls and guys dont get to angry with me about this post. it shows im growing up and looking for something more than just a hot chick.
Regards
theres nothing wrong with wanting that aslong as you can see the inner beauty. if you want her to go to the gym with you ask her if you want her to get her hair done treat her to it that way you both win she gets pampered and you get a pretty girlfriend
TrueFaith, your qustion caught my eye! I have not read all the answers, and not sure what decision you have come to, here I am putting my thoughts...
I felt you are a very nice and caring guy. You want your gf to be pretty and so want her to work out with you, get her hair done etc. And I say she's lucky to have a guy like you. You are not at all shallow and what you are doing what exactly my darling hubby did for me.
4 years after marriage, my friends tell me that I look the prettiest in my whole life time. He made me workout in gym, got my hair straightened, even taught me how to walk in heels, etc etc... For him, his wife's beauty is the foremost priority in his life, and no, he does not expect a super model out of me, but he says that we should make the best of what God has given us.
Now 25 pounds lighter, my friends compliment me on my looks and I do feel happy about myself too.
Go get your gf to the gym, it will be good for her. And there are 2 types of girls in this world:
1) Who know how to make themselves look pretty
2) Who don't
I guess your gf falls into the second category, and you can teach her how to do 1)
TrueFaith, your qustion caught my eye! I have not read all the answers, and not sure what decision you have come to, here I am putting my thoughts...
I felt you are a very nice and caring guy. You want your gf to be pretty and so want her to work out with you, get her hair done etc. And I say she's lucky to have a guy like you. You are not at all shallow and what you are doing what exactly my darling hubby did for me.
4 years after marriage, my friends tell me that I look the prettiest in my whole life time. He made me workout in gym, got my hair straightened, even taught me how to walk in heels, etc etc... For him, his wife's beauty is the foremost priority in his life, and no, he does not expect a super model out of me, but he says that we should make the best of what God has given us.
Now 25 pounds lighter, my friends compliment me on my looks and I do feel happy about myself too.
Go get your gf to the gym, it will be good for her. And there are 2 types of girls in this world:
1) Who know how to make themselves look pretty
2) Who don't
I guess your gf falls into the second category, and you can teach her how to do 1)
Good luck!
...And there are husbands in this world who trophy their wives
...and there are women in this world who become submissive under their husbands
I guess you fall under...ummm let me see...BOTH categories
I wonder how big you and your husband's heads have gotten. Can they fit through the door? This, by far is the worst advice given in this topic. There is nothing wrong with wanting to get prettied-up for yourself, but to have a spouse make you do these things is just darn-right sickening, shallow, egotistical, vain...whatever! A woman or man needs to make themselves happy before any one else. What ever happened to inner beauty?
There are two types of women like you:
1.) the ugly-personality type
or
2.) the ugly personality and egotistical type
Ask yourself why in the hell you gave this sort of advice?
"yada yada yada...there are just too many INSANELY HOT people in this world... (me being one of them) I go for the prettiest and skinniest girls ONLY! In highschool, I was the jerk that no 'nice girl' with a 'great personality' wanted to go for. I look down on those types of girls. Now this really nice girl wants to be with me, and I don't because she cares less about her looks and more on making this world a better place."
SHEESH!
You are what most women find repulsive and unattractive
You told the poor soul that looks didn't matter to you and yet in your post you clearly stated that they did? Who are you lieing to? Her or yourself? GET REAL!!! I hope she really looks deep into your mind, snaps, then leaves you. I know this is harsh, but you are asking for it. I have read all of your come-back posts to other people, and wonder why they have to be so nasty? You asked for advice, and people on AMHP are going to answer the only way they know how: opinion
Just think of all the best ladies, you have missed by only going for the ones that are physically attractive. No knock on them, but the best initial attraction to me, is the way she carries herself, and acts around others. I love confident females, no matter their booty, or boob size. Nice teeth help a lot.
I can't even begin to date a girl that can't hold a conversation! First thing I notice is smile and eyes, I don't rule out girls based on size. I don't want to be that shallow of a guy ha ha. Give a girl a chance, you'd be amazed at how great she can be
but heres the thing. 
im all fixed
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