I want to get with my Ex gf but she doesnt want a relationship!

theguy86 · #1 Nov 3, 2009, 02:06 PM

i met this girl and we really clicked we went out for 2 months as friends and then i asked her to get serious, she didnt want to cuz she got out of a relationship 3 months prior, so a month l8r we got serious. we dated for 8 months and we didnt communicate enough, so we decided to end it mutually and still be friends. we have now hung out 3 times a week for 2 months now and i asked her to get into a relationship again. she said no! she doesnt like relationships. she said they are to complicated, and said her life is to hectic now. she said she still has feelings for me, and i am wondering if she will ever be ready for a relationshio. she is not the type of girl to sleep around, so i know thats not what she is after. i just dont know what to do anymore, she is the only girl i want to be with, so i keep waiting and turning other girls down, hoping my ex will change her mind! Please Help!!

redhed35 · Nov 3, 2009, 02:08 PM

she's been straight up with you and told you she was not interested in a relationship,yo ucan wait all you want and turn down all the girls in the world,but it wont make her want you...

she said no...i suggest you move on,instead of waiting.

theguy86 · Nov 3, 2009, 02:12 PM

is there anyway to get her to change her mind about relationships?

MsMewiththat · Nov 3, 2009, 02:13 PM

ok... think of it this way. Unless I am completely missing your point here... you are in a relationship with her. It's just that she doesn't want to define it as one.
You are spending time with her and enjoying her company. I would assume that she is also enjoying yours. It's the definition that she doesn't want because of her past. Take what you have and be happy.. No?

theguy86 · Nov 3, 2009, 02:18 PM

thats exactly right. even when we were officially dating for those 8 months we where not facebook official cuz she doesnt like the word relationship! i love spending time with her and she is the same. i just wish she would change her mind on that word and committ, cuz im not bragging, but i would do anything for her and i am good looking and am good to her, i just dont get why she doesnt want all that in a relationship

MsMewiththat · Nov 3, 2009, 02:51 PM

Scars soemtimes don't heal over night. Give her time. Love is patient.

theguy86 · Nov 3, 2009, 02:54 PM

ok thanks alot, thats what i figured, but thats not what i wanted lol i want her to want one now, cuz i love her so much