I met this guy on a dating site and quickly fell in love with him. He seemed to like me too and we both called and IM each other on a daily basis. But he was constantly sending mixed signals which I found hard to decode. Eventually I decided to continue looking for other guys to date on the same site. During this process I came across another profile that appeared eeriely similar to his real person(in this profile he was married and his age was different), but he had stopped using this profile for over a year so I wasn't sure if it was possible that his situation had changed. So I did a person search and found that he was married and the age on the second profile was his correct age. So I called him up and told him and then proceeded to sever ties with him. There were a lot of unanswered questions in my mind and I didnt think it was necessary to ask him to explain since I would have a hard time beleiving anything he has to say. He called me three weeks later but I didn't respond to his call. I called him the next day and he didn't answer either, so I left a message which he never responded to.

I still like him. I dont want a rel;ationship with him but I would like to be friends with him as he does have a nice personality that I feel will make for a good friendship. He's birthday is coming up and I was thinking of sending him a nice card and a gift but I'm not sure how he will react. It may just be a waste of time and money so I'd appreciate some opinions.