virgo male still calls me after breakup >? why ?

gunjanvenaik · #1 Jan 2, 2009, 07:14 AM

hi guyz .i just wana know why my ex who initiated the break up is calling me now [ i dont recieve his calls ] ... he told me he was a ditcher he was a flirt earlier .. he told me that n he said he never got emotionally attached to a girl n never thought of long term wid them .. but he said he is emotionally attached to me n thinking of long term wid me .. i use to always complaint to him .. i was very possessive for him ... he is a virgo born on the 31st of august .

[b]he broke up cos he said he wanted to concentrate on his carrier and doesnt like me complainig all the time .

few days b4 he called me n then sent a msg saying '' hi '' ... nd then sent a message to me on a festival saying '' its fine v r not together but this doesnt mean v dont wish each other '' .. i did nt reply to him...

i just wana know y is he doing dis wen he himself inintiated the breakup thingy . !! huh !!

kctiger · Jan 2, 2009, 07:20 AM

I want to know what astrology has to do with this...why does him being a virgo even need to be mentioned? Just curious...

gunjanvenaik · Jan 2, 2009, 07:26 AM

thought it would help ... i thought tellnig about the zodiac wud help .. nyhow i didnt get my answer .. huh

kctiger · Jan 2, 2009, 07:30 AM

Well...it is all in the way you want to be treated. He broke up with you, yet he keeps in contact with you, as if you are some "pet" that he keeps around in case he needs someone to fall back on. Once he finds someone else, he won't contact you anymore. Think about it this way. When you throw something away, do you empty the trash, or do you keep that same garbage can around just in case you need to get something out? Not to compare you to trash by any means (bad analogy), but he expects to break up with you yet keep in contact with you...that isn't fair to you. The, "I want my cake and be able to eat it too," line...don't let him play games with you.

gunjanvenaik · Jan 2, 2009, 08:01 AM

but then y he keep asking about me from my coulegues... though i am over him but just to satisfy my ego i want him to run after me .. huh .poor me .. lol

gunjanvenaik · Jan 2, 2009, 08:05 AM

he called up one of our common frnds n was asking about me , as in , how m i doing ... then as soon as i got to know abt it i abused him that time itself n after that no calls nuthing ..

gunjanvenaik · Jan 2, 2009, 08:26 AM

i m 23 .... i dono y but i m not able to digest the very fact that sumbody played around wid me ....i m a girl guyz use to b scared ooff ... my frnds use to say i can kick ny boys butt oofff .... my ego is all shattered .. though i dont want him nymore but i m feeling really bad how dare heeee ...[if he actually flirted ]...i dono y but i feel he got attached to me the way he use to behave .. huh !!

N0help4u · Jan 2, 2009, 09:40 AM

There is a lot more to a person than just astrology. If he has a lot of two numbers in his name as well it could explain more than simply being Virgo.
It sounds to me like he was use to just being a playboy type that was use to jumping in and out of relationships but when he jumped out of the one with you he realized you meant more to him.
He may want another chance with you but not sure about it yet.



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