I know you saw how I was doing previously and things are still going well to a certain extent. We talked this morning and finally clarifiied what we both want. We are just too young for a serious relationship right now. Will that change we don't know? She has lost 10 lbs since the breakup and it is killing her. I don't want to lose her in my life but I know time is the only way we have a chance to be together in the long run. College is tough and girls want to be able to party with their girls and not feel handcuffed. For the past 4 months she didn't. She might flirt and what not but what would a single woman not do.

I know her personality and I know she won't do anything vindictive and she doesn't just hook up with anyone and is very self conscience but we both definately need the break.

Here is the DILEMMA. I love her to death and can't stand to be without her, I can see myself marrying her but I know this break is the only way we have a chance. It is too much right now. How do I go about after giving a good amount of space, to get back into her life by remaining casual friends with an understanding that later on you never know.

The love that we shared and the bond we had together doesn't just waver over time. Other factors may hinder it and you can't predict it but I am willing to let it go. I will still enjoy myself and flirt and have a good time, but I want her.

Is it possible to start being friends for awhile after a long absense and then getting back together? What would I need to do? Also, how can you not look ahead and think how can I wait almost 2 years for another chance. It may be shorter but I know it is basically almost 2 years until a realistic chance in my opinion. I would be back in Michigan getting my MBA and she would be in her senior year or done close.

PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

gansada

Nohitter410

Thanks very much, wildcat or tan any insight, you guys seem to be great at putting everything in perspective