in today's society i have found it very difficult to find a woman that likes herself most of the girls ive dated have had a significant amount of flings to relationship ratios and most of them tend to tell me these things without me asking its almost as if most of them have a guys mind like they are trying to lure me in with macho talk.one of them told me she has had 5 boyfriends but slept with 26 guys have the table turned in today's society are women switching roles?i was very stunned by this ratio someone help me with this .

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sorry fredg ment to post that under jeffatl

Fr_Chuck

I would say a few things after reading and thinking about it.

First, no most women are not going wild and having sex as they please, if anything it was alittle more wild during the 70's but as these people matured they discovered they no longer wanted to even admit it, and most certainly never bragged about it, it was still private although more free.

But I would say and agree, if you are only seeing women who are out there bragging about how many sex partners they have had, you are certainly not in places where you should be. You must be in bars, night clubs and hanging in the hood with hoocie mommas. If you are in the right level of society, you may find ladies that have made some poor judgements in boyfriends and perhaps did sleep with a few other men. These ladies will not brag about it, yes, when you start to get serious they may feel it is important to discuss your and thier past, but far from bragging.

So I beleive you need to take a serious look first at yourself, where in the social economic level of society are you, and where are these women you are discussing. And if you really don't like what you find, look in other areas.

talaniman

You must like those wild free ladies because you keep choosing them so find out why a certain type appeals to you so much. You need to know yourself so you can figure out what you want!

jeffatl

Alot of times people just think thats the thing that you want to hear, or they are just a bit too open with their sexual lives............. I dont know what to tell you really, but if it bothers you thats ok. Just move on.

Myth

It could also be part of the "reaction factor". Kinda like if he can handle this he's going to be able to handle my wild side... The question you have to ask yourself is do you actually want to stick around for that wild side and possible std's or do you want to try fishing in another pond.

mikeb270

Sounds like sloppy seconds too me....
or would that be sloppy 35ths

jeffatl

Almost a 2 year old post. How did you even find this?

Justme76

I know this is a few years old, but somehow I ran acrossed it while doing a search for something else and had to respond. I have to say that in today's world women are becoming more like men. I guess you could say some of us do it because it makes us feel powerful and in control, like we now have the upper hand. Women who sleep around are labeled as sluts or whores, while men who sleep around are considered to be Macho or cool. None the less, women today are becoming more business/career oriented so don't have the time to keep up with relationships, therefore if its easy for a guy to sleep around and move on, why can't women do the same. I don't speak for all women and not all of us are that way. I think by being honest up front, these are women that aren't looking for something serious, there just looking for fun or maybe an excuse to scare you away because there not interested.