My wife's friend is always looking at me and asking if we could all hang out all the time. It makes me uncomfortable. We always get into arguments when ever I hang out with her. She always compliments my looks and ask questions about my where abouts. It make me uncomfortable.

kiki_doki

I dont think you are at fault here!!! It is her fault for coming on to a married man, her friends man at that!!! And whats up with your wife? If my friend asked me for pictures of my husband i would give her a quick slap and remove her from my life!!!
I have friends that my husband doesnt like, not because they fancy him but becasue as people they dont really get on. But because she's my friend, when she come around he goes to see his friends...then we are all happy!!! (this is mutual, i never put anyone before him)
Why cant you just go and see your own friends instead of spending time with your wife's?
This is madness!!!

Miricale 123

My wife is a very nice person and kind of passive. So that is probably the reason my wife's friend ask those questions because , she feels she caqn get away with it. I have told my wife to approach about it but she says that she does not want to start anything. T=My wife claims that she ask those questions to all her friends.

Miricale 123

This is for those who think or have posted things like; get over myself, I must be interested and do not hang out with her. If you read the question that I initially posted you would understand the situation completely. Obviously, you people who have said those things cant read or have ADD. Im saying this to say; Do not let me see anything else about me being full of my self on here. Now me saying that makes me full of myself.

boredINmind

Everyone has pretty much agreed, AVOID HER! As far as someone saying you are full of yourself, no one has said that and meant it as a serious statement!

You asked for everyone's advice and they gave it to you, AVOID HER, TELL WIFE TO STOP IT, TELL HER TO KNOCK IT OFF, IGNORE HER, DON'T LET IT BOTHER YOU!!!! That is advice! That is what you get from this site!

boredINmind

And I just realized, THAT IS NOT YOUR ORIGINAL POST, you edited it!

In your original post, it asked something like, "How would I know, how do I find out?", or something similar!

That is messed up for you to edit a post and act like we are at fault for assuming something! We read the original post and responded accordingly.

southerngalps

yeah...people on this site can be pretty harsh...I do believe in advice, but not disparaging comments. Listen to their actual advice. Avoid her and move on with your life. You really don't have to make it a point to be around her.

Miricale 123

I say and do what I want to do. If I want to disparage comments, the that is what I will do.

N0help4u

Southerngirl was referring to the replies....not you.
We all say avoid her but as you say you will say and do what you want.

tigerlilly3

If she does your wife needs a new friend! I hate it when other woman come in between a relationship it's stupid and wrong! If your happy with your wife I would tell the friend that she needs to back off or just dont hang out wiht her anymore. If you do like her back and are interested get a divorce!

southerngalps

Miricale 123...I wasn't speaking of your disparaging comments...I was speaking of the comments that were made to you. I simply just said to listen to their advice, not their rude comments.