i think im in trouble

zooropa1985 · #1 Nov 1, 2007, 01:23 AM

hey guys its me again, hows things with everyone?

ok so heres the deal, ive been dating my new girl for 4 weeks now and everything was going great until i met her friends, there was one that really caught my eye, we got talking and i realised i kinda liked her.

Then yesterday me and the friend were talkin on msn and she told me she liked me, now i want to be with this girl but i dont want to hurt the girl im currently dating.

We both know if we did act upon it she would ruin her friendship which is the last thing in the world that i want to happen. Should i forget about this girl and stay with my current girl?

thanks

iAMfromHuntersBar · Nov 1, 2007, 01:31 AM

Aaah, zooropa ... what a pickle!

If you do act on your feelings you run the very real risk of;
Losing your girlfriend
Ruining your friendship
Ruining thier friendship
and then when you and your new, NEW girlfriend (possibly) split up ... you're left with nothing!

If you're not happy with the girl you're with, do the decent thing and let her down gently ... but for your sake I wouldn't plough straight into one of her friends, it'll just make you look like a scumbag!

Oh, and have a look at Aesop's Fable - The Dog and the Bone!

J

MissingHim2Much · Nov 1, 2007, 02:38 AM

Great advice by the way and also some woman are known for having a goodfriend come on to you just to see how far you will go.....Could be a trick to see if she can trust you



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