I've been with someone for almost 2 years. He's the guy I see myself forever with. Like everyone who walks this planet we are not all perfect however in my eyes he's almost perfect. But, there is this insecurity about me that sometimes gets the best of me. Every man has to say something about "the body" and that is my body. I stay in shape and I consider myself a very attractive woman. I'm confident in myself and I know men are more into looks as opposed to women. Is it really always all about the body. If I already have a good one why does he make me feel I should try to perfect it! Or do men just get misinterpreted the wrong way. It makes me feel so insecure and when a prettier woman comes around maybe with a tighter body I can almost hear his mind say "Damn I'd love to try that tight "!

livingfunky

it sounds like your relationship is stable. maybe your boyfriend sees your body as perfect as u said u see him ,
and everyone has a green eyed monster that makes them jealous of a partner and maybe yours is your body,
you think he looks at other women and has thoughts, well all men look and my motto is they can window shop and not buy, all men look its natural .talk to him and tell him how u feel and the insucurities will be wiped away .........

schuylervj

Here's an FYI; guys ALWAYS, always look...doesn't mean they're going to run off, just the male admiration for the female form. Are you sure it is he who is making you feel dissatisfaction with yourself? Or is it you putting pressure on yourself because of his glances at other women, which, as I stated, giuys always do..?

elrp

Girls look too, it doesn't mean they're going to take it any further.

olka

We all appreciate beautiful things, but it doesn't mean that we want to own them.
Don't compare yourself to others, as all people have their strengths & weaknesses,
Your boyfriend loves you not only because of your beautiful body, but also because of your character, personality, & other things.
Remember, you are a character, not a body. 8)

Krystal

Don't flame me for this but the truth is that men can't help themselves. They are really hysterical. They may recognize that they are not the he-men they would like to think they are, but at the same time, they are constantly checking out the scenery. Your choice is: do you want to be single or do you wnat a relationship regardless of the fact that men never stop looking or thinking about it all?