Ugh, so i did something stupid again and went on my ex's facebook. i knew it was just going to hurt me even more but, i dont know... im an idiot... Anyway, she broke up with me cus of "long distance" but i'm thinking that that was BS cus she has some other guy. I checked her inbox and she sent him these really long messages about how she's never been so in love with anyone before, and how she cant wait to be married to him. (mind you, they've been together a month) It just freakin hurts cus she said those same exact words to me, but not a month in. And now im thinking, how long has she not meant it to me?

I guess there is kind of a plus side to snooping, at least ill stop kidding myself into thinking that she'll want to come back. But it just gets me thinking, She's the one that said all that stuff to me, but she broke up with me... could he really be that much better than me? I'm pretty sure she was happy for the 2 years we spent together.

on a side note... how crazy is this--> When she came back for thanksgiving break, she was all over me and telling me that she can't wait till we're married and all that fun stuff, then she goes back to school for only 10 days, and then comes back home for xmas break and breaks up with me her first day back. It only took that guy 10 days to make her completely forget about me... what a piece of work.

Anyway, is she crazy for feeling that way towards him so soon? or is that a normal type of thing when girls break up with someone and then immediately enter another relationship?

daisydew

Facebook and Myspace were the WORST after my boyfriend broke up with me. He immediately got in a new relationship too. Do yourself a favor and don't look. If you're feeling tempted just come here and vent! Read through the posts here and look at all the people who support you. It will lift your spirits and you'll realize you don't really care what's on her facebook anymore. Hang in there!

ihatewestseneca

So i was thinking about the break-up... naturally, haha. I never really got a straight answer from her, cus she just wanted to take a break, but she would call me and stuff. So then i told her that i can't be her friend during this break, and she was upset, then NC started.

I'm not trying to justify any reason to call her and ask if we are absolutely done or not. After seeing what shes wrote to that other guy, i dont really want her anymore. i just can't help wondering if moving on would be easier if she had told me straight up if she wasnt interested anymore. Cus when she came over before she went back to school she told me that she was still interested in me, but she was just confused. Thats the only answer i got, that she was confused. Judging by her messages to that other guy, its hard to tell if she is interested in me anymore or not. So yeah, i think it would be easier if she would just say "No, i dont want to be with you anymore". Guess, ill just have to wait till she tries to contact me, if she does... haha, bad day...

ihatewestseneca

I just want to say thank you to everyone who gave me such great advice on this thread. i havent checked her facebook since this thread, but the temptations are there. However, whenever im tempted, i just re-read this thread.

Thanks again everybody!

ISneezeFunny

way to go west.

hope things are going well for you.

ihatewestseneca

things are going very well... today is a great day, i may have a project due in an hour that i have no hope of finishing on time, i couldn't care less. i feel good today, and my hair looks amazing. you know those days where you wake up and shower and whatnot and you look in the mirror and you're like "Damn! i look good". this may be a bit feminine, but i dont care.

ISneezeFunny

hahahaha the good hair days.

sadly, I really don't care about the way I look...and it shows. currently, I'm wearing a gray shirt with brown lounge pants and some pumas. I'm at work like this. I'm going to class like this. If all goes well, I might go out tonight like this. My hair? ...not styled in any way shape or form.

but I know what you mean.