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im 15, and theres this girl who lives in my neighborhood and we r kinda friends and i really like her. im too nervous to ask her out, and i dont wanna get rejected cuz i dont know if she likes me or not. also, i dont know wat my friends will think of me if i go out with her (no shes not ugly, shes pretty hot). if ur goin to respond, dont just say, "just go ask her out" actually try to give me some advice to help me.
well if she is pretty hot, just forget it, she will alreaddy have a line of guys ahead of you.
No honestly, you will get turned down a 199 times most likely before you get out of high school. Sometimes the girl that turns you down at 15 is the one you take to the senior prom. Life is like that.
The main issue is that if you worry about what may happen, nothing will ever happen.
Yes, you will get turned down, if you don't, odds are at 15 you and this girl if you go out will break up, it happens, but if you don't ask anyone, you will find yourself taking your ugly cousin to the prom latter in life.
she probly doesnt since shes never had a bf before and shes kinda shy. and since we r friends dontcha think that she would be more willing to go out with me?
I say go for it man, what do you have to lose here? take a chance and tlak to her, hang out with her, or just make her smile. Good luck buddy, Im rooting for you!
thanks for the advice, but didnt i say not to say something like "just go for it and ask her out"
dude, thats what you need to hear. what else can we really say here? You sound like a good guy, just get some confidence in yourself and get to know her. Hang out with her or something buddy. Aske her to do somethig with you. Im not exactly clear on how well you know her, but if you want to nab her, you are going to have to find a way to get to know her better. Shy girls are tuff to get to know, but try and find something you guys have in common and just talk to her about that. Good luck man. Keep us posted.
Again, that would all depend on how well you know her. If you are friends with her I would say a movie would be good, but if you dont really know her well that might be akward for you both. I would ask her to come out wiht you and your buddies, maybe tell her to bring a few of her friends with her, that way she will feel comforitable as well. You have the right idea bud, when you are getting to know a girl its all about comfort. Dont push it, but let her know you are interested. Just flirt with her a bit when you hang out, but dont smother. COMFORT, make her laugh, and make sure she has a good time. Just be cool man.
wat would u suggest? like going to a movie with her or something? if i do that would it be better to go with a group of our friends or alone?
Never do a movie as a 'first date', or at least don't make it the only thing you do. How are you two supposed to get to know each other while focusing entirely on a screen instead of each other?
I'm shaky on the 'solo or group' thing. If it's a group thing, you might be making yourself out to be her 'friend' only, which is something you don't want to do. If you guys are semi-friends already, truly, a solo venture shouldn't be too hard for her to accept.
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