What do i do if i have to tel my girlfriend something that is so important that it would make or break our relationship. i love her soo much that i cant seem too tell her. does that sound strange. i need too know i am lost in a sea on my own thoughts. should i write her a letter or just come start out with it.

ihatewestseneca

what do you want to tell her?

talaniman

Face to face, and just tell her

Altenweg

Tell her, she has a right to know.

dragnlady5

what ever it is if you dont tell her you will always have it hanging over your head, The guilt of lying by ommision will eat at you and eventually it will affect your realtionship. Be honest what ever it is. (must be big if you cant tell strangers) Tell her face to face not in a letter that is cold and seemingly uncaring. it is also the cowards way out. Be a man tell her face to face. She might surprise you

HistorianChick

Never write a letter when you can talk to someone face to face. Trust her by giving her the respect that she deserves.

When you do decide to tell her, be completely honest. Don't omit things to make yourself look better or to sugar coat the facts in an effort of preserving your relationship. Lay it out before her in person and trust her to make the right decision.

Shaballo

I did tell her, face to face. it was hard, i am just worried that we have grown apart. she loves me but i dont think that it will ever be the same. i should have told her 7 months ago. how do i know when it is time too say goodbye. I think that she would be better off.

ihatewestseneca

the sooner the better.

Handyman2007

Talk about it to her again and find out what is going on in her head. There is one thing I realized a long time ago- We never really know what the other person is thinking and we won;t if we don;t ask or if they are a liar.

Shaballo

i have asked what she was thinking but she always says "nothing, or I dont know" could it be possible that i was brought here to be alone. to not find someone.