Hey Curious,
Guys - what a mess huh? (hahaha) Believe it or not, from experiences in the past, guys have insecurities just like females do, but they would never allow that to show. Guys like to hear you talk about them & lift them up as well. Use your imagination when it comes to this & fit it to your man. Tell him how sexy his body is, or something that you love about his body imparticular. Guys also like to hear that no other man can do for you what he does ... whether it be in bed or just in general. But whatever you do, make these things sincere ;D Don't just come up with something because you want to make him feel good or turn him on. As far as really turning a guy on, most of them like agressive talk. Tell him what you want him to do to you ... which not only makes it easier on him to figure it out, but he also gets the pleasure of hearing you say it. Say it in a seductive and demanding way and you'll definitely get his attention :P As retarded as this may sound, since you're not completely comfortable with the idea yet, practice when you're by yourself. That way you'll be more confident when the time comes. Guys absolutely love confidence & a woman who knows what they want. Ok? Good luck and have fun with it!!
One another thing, remember this: A lot of times, actions will speak louder than words. You might be able to turn your man on more by doing something sexy for him ... whether that be a private lap dance, striptease or wherever your imagination takes you. And if you get inspired (haha), you might even be able to bring in some of that "dirty talk" to make it even more intense.
The more you experiment with this, the more buttons you will find to push. In the meantime, just have fun with it and relax. The more you relax and open up, the easier these things will come to you.
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