Taking responsibility for your own actions

kpretty44 · #1 Apr 3, 2003, 05:54 PM

:'(

Well me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months. We had known each other for awhile before we started dating. We love ech other very much but now it's like daniel tries so hard to make me happy that he tells me what I want to hear instead of what's on his heart. When I confront him about something like that he says that he does it to make me happy all he wants to do is make me happy whether it be tellin me what I wanna hear to keep from hurting me. I dunno what to do I love him so much and I don't want to losse our relationship but I csnnot continue to feel like I am lied to all the time. PLEASE HELP ME!

brightblue · Apr 4, 2003, 12:38 AM

;D Wish I had a guy like that

The foundation of many real relationships is truth and communication. Simply tell him that. I would myself much rather have a man who trie to make me happy in every way he can than one who is self centered and doesn't care. He absolutely loves you....for real.
If you are happy with him...leave things be for awhile...if not...tell him you need to hear the reality. But....be ready for it

chaz1797 · May 14, 2003, 11:28 PM

You know the guy is nice, but it's better to communicate you true feelings then to lie about what you really want. Communicate with him that it is important for you to know the truth, not for him to say what you want to hear..........better now then later it might be to late for the both of you, honesty is the best policy. Good luck and God bless

CHAZ



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