is my supervisor interested in me

dreamyeyez · Oct 12, 2009, 12:35 PM

hey i just started a new job a few weeks ago n i think my boss is interested in me...he keeps gazing at me in the eyes and asking personal questions,I even noticed him getting flustered while i was training and lauging with another supervisor..my intuition is telling me yes, but i need some other opinions, keep it real but dont be rude.thanx

nikosmom · Oct 12, 2009, 05:51 PM

Ohhh, you're a girl?

I still say this: you may just think he's checking you out because you're used to it from other guys. It may be no different than if one of your girlfriends 'looked' at you- would you assume she was looking at you in a sexual way?

Or as Chuck said- maybe he's considering crossing over. Only way to know is ask him. He's your friend after all.

dreamyeyez · Oct 12, 2009, 05:57 PM

a guess but i remember one day i walked past him in an outfit that i guess people that i looked nice in and groaned..idk i guess thats weird but thats what really happend...

nikosmom · Oct 12, 2009, 06:00 PM

Well bring up to him in a lighthearted way the next time you think he's scoping you out. Say something like, "Are you checking me out?!" It'll open the door for you to talk to him about it without putting either of you on the spot and making you too uncomfortable.

If he says no, then just take his word for it unless he does something really overt.

dreamyeyez · Oct 12, 2009, 06:02 PM

thanx.lol

dreamyeyez · Oct 12, 2009, 06:14 PM

thanks for your opinions

dreamyeyez · Oct 12, 2009, 06:20 PM

hey, is there a process of finding an all around good guy one that pays for some dine outs, and treats you with respect...whats wrong with me??? ive been stumbling across all these losers am getting that feeling of wanting a serious and meaningful relationship i need it...how do i find the right guy.

nikosmom · Oct 12, 2009, 06:26 PM

You must have respect for yourself before you can demand that anyone show it to you. Present yourself and act like a lady and others will treat you the same. Don't accept a man walking all over and using you. People only treat you the way you allow them to.

But don't put too much focus on the things that aren't important either. You're 19, so a guy your age may not have the money to take you to fancy restaurants and shows, etc but it's about him treating you with kindness and respect.

Don't go looking. Find happiness within yourself and the fellas will be drawn to your inner light. Get involved in things you enjoy (sports, clubs, or whatever you like) and then you are more likely to meet people with common interests. Don't rush it; just enjoy life and the right one will come along. You've got plenty of time.

Hollisterbaybee · Oct 12, 2009, 06:31 PM

A right guy:
he respects u for who u r
he's always there for u
he doesn't care how u look
he doesn't just say he loves u he proves it
he cares alot bout u
he likes u for who u r and what u do not ur looks

paxe · Oct 12, 2009, 06:37 PM

When I joined my human rights group, I found out there was a lot of respectable guys there (and respectable charming girls also).
If you go clubbing or bars, you could find a good guy but it's going to be very rare.

dreamyeyez · Oct 12, 2009, 06:46 PM

yeah when i think of clubs i usually think of guys trying to get laid.lol..but i have met one guy that i am attracted to and vice versa but i think he is way out of my league..he makes a lot more money and i feel sort of inferior



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