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Still miss my ex after 5 years. Should i contact her?
Hi Everyone
Hope someone can give me some advice.
I split up with my ex 5 years ago. We were together for 3 years and lived together for 2 of them.
We used to run a business together and work ended up ruining our relationship. We spent al our time working and never made anytime for ourselves. The last 6 months together was spent arguing. It got so bad that i felt i had to leave. It was the worst mistake of my life.
I met someone else on the rebound. Which was good at first. Turns out she was only after my money. By the time i got to know her properly it was too late. 4 months after we met she told me she was pregnant (Told me she was using contraceptive injection, so i didn't use a condom). I felt obliged to stay with her, do the honorable thing. We were together until the baby was 1. I left her because i was so miserable. All the time i was with her i couldn't stop thinking about the fabulous woman i had left.
There have been a few other women since then.
But i still think about my ex all the time, even dream about her and the fabulous times we had together.
We haven't spoke since we split up, i have only bumped into her once in the past 5 years. That was about 6 months ago. She was in a local shopping precinct with her parents. She said hello and that was that.
I'm seriously thinking about contacting her and letting her know how i feel. I don't know how to go about it tho. Or even if it's a good idea. It's been so long.
W0W!!!!!! Omgsh! That my friend is pretty bad........ I'm not gonna lie i had sympathy until I read the post above.......... Phil, you're a mess. Stop trying to get with girls, and get your life straight. And next time you post something so serious, lets have ALL the facts.
Dude... that's called you should have been honest with everyone...... you're almost like those women that come onto this site who are like "I'm in love with a married man and he doesn't want leave his wife but he does love me!" PFFFFFFT! Look, I'm sorry that you lost your gf all those years ago, but maybe you should own up to the children you have been making along the way.
Whoa now.. this is not a place for name calling... you can turn loser into a very constructive piece of criticism. For example: Irresponsible man-child who should have known better and owned up.
Phil, no amount of butt pad or jockey cup will protect you when this turns around and bites you in the rear, and it will. Maybe you think walking away will keep you from it, but will be with you forever. Even heartless people carry these things, that's why they become BITTER! Your howl will be heard around the world! How sad!
i smnot getttin inspired here folks theres somone else one here ont over ex after 8 yrs u not over urs in 5 and am struggling after 17 weeks was hoping that i would get over him soon but bloody hell i be as bad as u guys soon.I do frimly believe that one person can come into ur life and move it so deeply u can never move on and i fear that nay have happened with me he has met someone else i keep kidding my self hah it it only been a few weeks he been seeing her he soon relaize it me he wants and come running back. It dont think it will happemn but i do know I would do whatever it takes to get him back if i could. YEAH u should go for it u have spent the last 5 yearsmissing this person that is far too long but the rest of ur life is even longer to regret not doing anything to get her back if u think theres a chance go for it mate and i wish u every luck in the world keep us posted and GOOD LUCK
What a romantic and sweet story. I had a guy try to contact me by letter once years after we stopped seeing each other. I was already married so I didn't call the number until 5 years later when my ex and I split. When I called his cell I got an answering service but I didn't want to leave a message. When I called his house a woman answered. Maybe it was one of his daughters or maybe a wife, I don't know but I never tried to call again.
I hope she calls you.
I Can Keep You All Updated On This Story,basically She Txt Him Back And Told Him She Was Happy,with A Daughter And Partner.as For Phil He Asks Me For Sex,but I Refuse.think This Man Needs To Be On His Own And Get Happy With Himself.the Girl In Question,was In Fact Dumped By Phil For Another Woman,and He Walked Out On Her Leaving Her Devastated.what Goes Around!!!!!!!!!
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