I'm having another one of those jealous filled days...Most of the frequenters here know that my boyfriend dumped me and quickly moved on to a new girl that he knew while him and I were together.

We had so many plans together. Today I discovered pictures online from a trip that him and I were supposed to take together that he took with her instead. I'm still just sooo incredibly jealous that he was able to move on so fast. Doesn't he even think about how that trip was supposed to be with me and him?? I'm trying so hard not to be jealous about them. I try to think that I'm the strong one because I'm not codependent, and I didn't need to rush into another relationship. It's just so hard to see him so happy with another girl while I'm stuck thinking about him all the time. Any tips for getting over jealousy?

kaitou

My only tip for you is to stop thinking about him. Thinking about him won't do you any good, so stop torturing yourself over him . I'm going through the same thing you are, and i told myself, while i'm busy being sad about him. He's moving on, and doesnt think about me at all. I'm just out of his life.

So i should relieve myself from the pain, and try my hardest to make myself happy. And that is to stop thinking about the ex.

ForeverZero

Patience, you've lost the battle, but you'll win the war.

s_cianci

Obviously you were more vested in the relationship than he was. It always hurts to come to that realization. However, don't automatically assume that he's so blissfully happy. You may have answered your own question in that he may indeed be codependent. If that's the case then he's far worse off than you and despite appearances right now is only going to end up miserable.

talaniman

Stop thinking about him, and worry about you. Get busy as you have way to much time on your hands if your thoughts are still in the past.