I still cant get over her!

coolkid99 · #1 Dec 19, 2008, 06:16 PM

Hi im writeing on here becuase i cant get my ex gf out of my head......i have broken up with her for 4months now and i still think of her all the time and knowing she has a bf hurts me really bad.........we did have a good relationship when we went out and we both had loved eacthother alot.........but i still cant get her outta my head even tho after 4month being broken up maybe its cuz i had given her a promise ring i dunno i just dont dunno what to do anymore.....oh but i do have a gf now tho i like her but i still think of my ex alot even when im with her its just not the same......anyone have ideas for me on what to do?

debdoes · Dec 19, 2008, 06:17 PM

Why did you break up with her?

coolkid99 · Dec 19, 2008, 06:18 PM

i broke up with her becuase she had cheated on me but i did forgive her

debdoes · Dec 19, 2008, 06:23 PM

Ohhh well that's a good reason to break up with her, cheating is not cool. But if you are able to forgive her for it like you said, you could always try and talk to her about it and see about trying again.

coolkid99 · Dec 19, 2008, 06:25 PM

well i dont think that one will work now because she does have a bf and i dunno im trying to get her out of my head........i just dunno how to tho

debdoes · Dec 19, 2008, 06:38 PM

That's true.....I don't know how to get her outta her head. Time, I guess. I've been broken up with my ex now for 2 months and I still think about him for about 80% of the time I'm awake. It sucks!

coolkid99 · Dec 20, 2008, 05:32 AM

yeah i kinda think that maybe i did go to fast into a relationship .......sometimes i just dont understand girls but thats life........i always end up thinking of someone for the longest time after breaking up and this i guess is kinda worse cuz of being a year long......i usally only had a relationship for like 4-5months if that this one was longer and i guess love came my way and then made it really hard to not think of her.......do you think i shouldnt talk to her even if she trys talking to me and if i dont talk her she gets mad.

THEpurplepeanut · Dec 20, 2008, 06:47 AM

well i'm in the same situation, i broke up with my ex because we were going to different schools and i did this 8 months ago and i still like him and i recently found out he likes me but he has a gf but, whatever. if she wants to talk just do some small talk. she'll get the hint if you don't as much, and you just need a little more time to think things over, and don't just go girl crazy because if you're still thinking of her it will just lead to hurt feelings with other girls. good luck!