ok there is girl that is 16 years old i think at school i am 17 and she started likeing me like a week ago. she is the one who started talking by saying hi or hey when she sees me on the bus or hallway i like her too. on the bus i always sit at the back seat and she turns her head around somethings to me and smiles and look forward but i don't know what to do to be a friend with her does anyone got a tip on what to do?

letmetellu

Next time you get on the bus don't go to the back of the bus. sit in a seat that would be close to where she sits. That is enough at this time to let her know that you are interested in her.

AKaeTrue

Next time you see her, you be the first to say hello. Then make conversation... Ask her what she does after school or on weekends (or if you know of something better that you'd like to use). That will strike up a conversation and it will take off from there. It's that simple... After you break the ice, the rest is a piece of cake.

jahnplay

thanks i will try it tomorow

ScottGem

Ask her about herself, her likes, what she does in her spare time, what classes she likes, etc. Get her talking about herself and LISTEN. You will find it pretty easy to go on from there.

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colonel000036

Get her a Christmas ornament. Something cute. Give her a card. Write something nice inside. Make it memorable. Don't forget your phone number and shirt size on the inside. Why the shirt size? I don't know. It may be a good ice breaker. Then you can ask her what size ring she wears, wrist , anklet, ear, see where I am going?

Good luck. Treat her right! james

jahnplay

thanks i will try to do that later on becouse this is the first day to talk together we talked and she already knows my name and then she tolled me her name. i asked what she did at school today and other stuff thanks. i will try all i can to know her

ScottGem

I really disagree with this answer. Getting gifts asking for things like sizes etc is bribery. Its going way to far and way to fast. A teenage boy should not be giving gifts to someone until they start dating. The advice sends the wrong message or materialism. Giving gifts should be an expression of affection not bribery to get to know someone better.

ScottGem

I really disagree with this answer. Getting gifts asking for things like sizes etc is bribery. Its going way to far and way to fast. A teenage boy should not be giving gifts to someone until they start dating. The advice sends the wrong message or materialism. Giving gifts should be an expression of affection not bribery to get to know someone better. ESPECIALLY at this young age.

Jahn,

Sounds like things are proceeding nicely, take it easy, by the end of the week you should be able to ask her for a date. What might be nice is to take her to a tree lighting ceremony in your town if one is scheduled.

s_cianci

Small talk is the way to go. Keep it light. Discuss classes, the weather, holiday plans. Anything of interest to the two of you as students at the same high school and as two young people from the same town. Maybe give her a call in the middle of christmas vacation just to say hi and see how she is. Don't get too romantic too soon or you'll most likely blow it. Light-hearted flirtatious humor is what you want.