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    nerf27 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 21, 2014, 07:36 PM
    I started a close relationship with an older girl. Will it last?
    Here's the story of our close relationship:

    We started when I was 12, and she was 14. We met at this party hosted at my mother's friends' house. My mom is very close friends with the girl's parents and she knows the girl very well too.

    I was meeting her for the first time. She was only 14 years old when we met, and I was only 12. She was the sweetest girl I have ever met.

    We became well acquainted with each other, and then on we became really good friends, and we were really digging each other. We were having such a fun time! As the party started to mellow down, everybody was relaxing, and enjoying the nice quiet evening outside. We were in a private location (of course). There we were learning more about each other, and that's what began out close friendship.

    I could tell she really cared about me and made me feel like a person, just as I did with her, and she really felt cared for when being around her. We really liked each other a lot.

    However, as time went by, we were developing huge crushes on each other. We were both getting more attracted to each other and we began to flirt with each other.

    The party ended, and we gave each other a really big hug (this showed our friendship together). But wait a minute, we exchanged cell phone numbers and I asked her if she could call me...

    She said yes.

    From that point on, we became boyfriend and girlfriend. We're now dating. She's 16 and I'm 14.

    Will it last?
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    Apr 21, 2014, 07:39 PM
    Not likely.
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    Apr 21, 2014, 07:57 PM
    Unlikely... between 18 and 25 you will both go through massive maturing and most likely be drawn indiffering directions as is normal during that age range and become different than you are now.

    Of everyone I knew in high school... only one couple made it more than a couple years out of high school... and that one couple eventually divorced. SO nobody I knew during that age range stayed together for the long haul.
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    Apr 21, 2014, 09:22 PM
    Feelings may change as you grow up and start living life as more mature young adults. Who can say for sure?

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