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    Apr 19, 2007, 08:08 AM
    Spending time vs sex
    When a man wants to just have sex rather than wanting to spend some quality time together... does that necessarily mean he is not interested in you and that woman should feel there is something really wrong with her that he doesn't want her for who she is but just her body... Can anyone throw some light on this please... especially what is man's psyche behind this?
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    Apr 19, 2007, 08:13 AM
    It all depends on how long your with the person. If you begin to get to know somebody from the beginning with quality time and work yourself up to the experience then I would think that there are times where somebody might just want sex or just quality time together. Most of the time I would think both as a couple.

    For me personally I spent almost two years getting to know somebody before sex even became an important part. It is just a matter of personal preferences. How a person becomes involved. How each individual in the relationship responds.

    I am not sure if I answered anything but those are my thoughts.
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    Apr 19, 2007, 08:21 AM
    Yes u're right Jesushelper... I think on the same lines... Sex is a very private thing and can only be enjoyed once you are into someone... unfortunately... some men do not think that way... it's sad but true.thanks for your reply... it helps..
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    Apr 19, 2007, 08:35 AM
    Hello ex:

    I don't know. From MY perspective, making love IS quality time. What?? You want to "share" your feelings more? THAT'S quality time to you? Not to him. Going to a football game with him - THAT'S quality time.

    Check out the adult sexual board. There are lots of chicks over there whose guy won't even do them. Now THAT'S a problem.

    As long as he's making love to you and nobody else, and as long as he's putting bread on the table and not beating you, things aren't too bad.

    excon
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    Apr 19, 2007, 08:42 AM
    U may be right Excon... thanks for good insight
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    Apr 21, 2007, 08:50 AM
    If a female makes it easy to have sex well what do you want a guy to do? If you want more then, don't have sex without getting the quality you think you deserve.
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    Apr 21, 2007, 02:55 PM
    Sounds perfect talaniman... I think it could be very degrading if you get laid but not wanted by the guy who s u... lady, to get respect command respect... that always lasts a lifetime...
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    Apr 22, 2007, 06:53 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by exquisite
    When a man wants to just have sex rather than wanting to spend some quality time together...does that necessarily mean he is not interested in you and that woman should feel there is something really wrong with her that he doesn't want her for who she is but just her body....Can anyone throw some light on this please...especially what is man's psyche behind this??
    I'm a boy and that is what most boys would want but I woeld rather spend time with a girl than have sex I was like that but... I change it is part of growing up
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