Originally Posted by stressedout43
I know that this is just another breakup story. But I'm 36 and feel ready to spend my life with her. She loves me and neither of can seem to even imagine it being over. But it's just hard to beat out the (new Guy) when they have not experienced any problems yet. She still relies on me for all of the important things. Please help me get my life back together. I need some advice.
You need toi put a helmet on your head cause your banging your head to hard a gainst a brick WALL!
You said SHE LOVES ME! NO SHE doesn't !
You said Neither of us can imagine it being over! She's with another guy its OVER!
If she wanted you she would not be with the new guy, but your judgement is clouded and you cannot think straight at this point! SHE HAS ANOTHER GUY SHE DOES NOT NEED YOU OR WANT YOU BUT IS KEEPING YOU JUST IN CASE IT doesn't work with him!
Now mate I'm sorry to say but if you look at it this way which I'm going to show you then you will get it...
You are standing there with this other guy SHE has a choice between you and him She has chosen HIM nothing more simpler than that!
You are the new girl friend the one who she can cry to when everything is not going right!
This new guy he is the man he is the one with her pants around her ankles and you are now wearing a SKIRT!
So you better get your crap together and get some balls cause the only way your getting this girl to wake up is to totally disapear! You probably won't do this but you must NEVER contact her or else you can stay being the new girl friend wearing the [panties!
Get serious mate she wants a guy who doesn't care, you care to much show her you arnt taking this crap your out of there...don't let her lean on you! DO NOT SPEAK TO HER SHE HAS ANOTHER GUY!PLEASE WAKE UP! NOT BEING MEAN!
Just look at what is going on here and you may still get her back! Maybe she is confused I doubt it she is just stringing you ALONG!
I belted my head against the wall for a long time and she even cried to me saying I won't STRING YOU ALONG! This went on for 2 months and you know ewhat she did string me ALONG!
Best solution is always cut all ties and leave if she realises she made a mistake well she sure KNows your number...
And don't think cause she calls she wants you back!NONONOON
Dont answer in Hope wait for a message saying I WANT YOU!