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    ConfusedandLost Posts: 93, Reputation: 26
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    Oct 3, 2007, 07:55 AM
    Some thoughts I would like to share.
    I thought I would share... I hope it helps some of you :)


    If a someone loves you, nothing can keep them away.

    If they don't love you, nothing can make them stay.

    Stop making excuses for a them and their behavior.

    Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

    Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

    Slower is better.

    Never live your life for a someone before you find out what makes you truly happy.

    If a relationship ends because he/she was not treating you as you deserve
    Then heck no, you can't 'be friends.' A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

    Don't settle. If you feel like they are stringing you along, then they probably are.

    Don't stay because you think 'it will get better.' You'll be mad at yourself

    The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

    Why would they treat you any differently?

    Always have your own set of friends separate from thiers.

    Maintain boundaries in how a someone treats you.

    If something bothers you, speak up.

    Never let a them know everything. They will use it against you later.

    You cannot change a their behavior. Change comes from within.

    Don't EVER make them feel as if they are more important than you are... even if they have more education or a better job.

    Do not make them into a quasi-god.

    Never let them define who you are.

    Never borrow someone else's partner.

    If they cheated with you, they WILL cheat on you.

    They will only treat you the way you ALLOW them to treat you.

    You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is a two-way street.

    You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship

    You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary... not supplementary.

    Dating can be fun... even if they don't turn out to be THE ONE.

    Make them miss you sometimes... when they always know where you are, and your always readily available to them- they take it for granted.

    Don't fully commit to a someone who doesn't give you everything that you need.
    Keep them in your radar but get to know others.

    They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
    Them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
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    Oct 3, 2007, 08:41 AM
    Very good advice! I think "Relationships" should be a required course in high school.
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    Oct 3, 2007, 11:03 AM
    That's really good advice, a lot of people don't realize that stuff and end up hating where they end up in there relationships
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    Oct 3, 2007, 11:09 AM
    Good job confused. This is great.

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