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    brimichelle7 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 21, 2011, 11:23 AM
    I need some outside opinions on my relationship that is going downhill.
    Ok so, as of yesterday my boyfriend and I have been together for two years. We have had a lot of downs, but don't we all. When we first got together, he was great to me, he gave me attention treated me great, was sweet and caring. Well he has changed a lot, and shows no emotion, and seems not to care much at all. I will try and talk to him about our relationship and he never wants to talk. He makes me upset quite a bit because of the things he says or does, and when this happens he just calls me selfish and what not. HE doesn't talk to me like he used to, ignoring me and to me it seems like he's just staying because he doesn't know what to do. HELP! Please
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    Dec 21, 2011, 06:28 PM
    Its always so great in the beginning but as we learn more and the good stuff fades, we either learn to talk, or leave for something better.

    He may not know what to do, but you should know what you need.

    NO Communications, NO Relationship. If he can't talk with you... whats the point?
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    Dec 21, 2011, 07:32 PM
    Seems like he is staying because he does not know what to do, you are unhappy, why are you staying?
    If you guys can't talk to each other your relationship is going nowhere.
    You need to ask yourself if you want to continue on in this manner.
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    Dec 22, 2011, 08:40 PM
    I agree.

    I would lay it on the line. Either we talk, or I walk...

    See if that works.
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