nothing will happen between us, but i still really like him.

IDontKnowMe · #1 Jul 2, 2008, 12:20 PM

I see this boy once a week at a sort of youth club
I am 14 and he is 17. he is in the sixth form at my school

thing is, i really fancy him and find myself thinking about him a lot.
but to him i would be too young for anything to happen, and as far as i can tell he might be interested in some other girl anyway.
so i know nothing is ever going to happen with him and i have accepted that.

but i don't know what to do about the fact that i still like him.
i know that i need to get over him and move on but i don't know how to do that without not seeing him anymore.
i still want to be friends with him even if we will never be anything more but i see him my heart seems to skip a beat so i don't know how to get that to go away so i can enjoy the friendship.
Ideas?

sorry if this sounds a bit stupid to some, it's just been on my mind a lot recently.
Thankyou for reading.

Distantlove · Jul 2, 2008, 01:27 PM

Don't worry, it's okay to look at him. You don't desperately have to not see him to get over him because you are young. It's a crush. Some other guy is gna come along and soon you'll like them instead. Interests change at a young age and it's not a bad thing. I remember i used to like loads of different guys at that age and i found it fun.

You are right, you are too young for him tho. If you find that you dont want to think about him too much anymore, just try as much as possible to not go to the places he goes. Try going somewhere new with your friends. I'm sure you will find another guy you like soon enough, especially now that you have recognised the fact that its not going to happen with you and the 17 year old.

IDontKnowMe · Jul 3, 2008, 01:04 PM

I do want to enjoy this crush, because he really is a great guy.
but thinking about him all the time isn't fun because although he is great i know nothings going to happen and that means that thinking about him makes me unhappy sometimes.

And thankyou (:

Distantlove · Jul 3, 2008, 01:26 PM

ok. well try as much as you can to avoid going to the places he goes and try not to talk to him either. Focus more on your friends and arrange things you want to do with them. You'll soon forget about him whilst your out having a fun time!



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