Hi there, im back to this site again.

I have just done something to my last relationship (which is long distance). Dont know if it was right thing or wrong.

Me and my ex officially broke up almost a year. But after the breakup, we still contacted sometimes. Now he dated and had a new gf but hides it from me until i found it out myself. Its nothing to blame because we already broke up. I said "well then, im happy for you, wish you all the best." He cried and constantly asked me "Why did you leave me? If you didnt leave me, if you never quited trying, such things would never happen. I am not a machine, i need to survive. You had no idea how much hurt i was when you left me."

I said "what is done, is done. As soon as i sign out this chat today, we are completely stranger, you never existed and so do i". He said it was too severe. I ended up saying goodbye forever, he kept saying that i'll hear from him in this life.

At 1st i felt good. But honestly now i feel so terrible. Was i so severe?

GlindaofOz

I don't think you were severe. The breakup occured over a year ago and he has a new girlfriend. There is no reason for you to be his emotional dumping ground for him.

you are absolutely right - what is done is done. The only thing we can control in this life is the present no one can go back in time an fix past mistakes.

I think you should feel good you stood your ground and didn't let him manipulate you.

star3114

I think you did the right thing. If anything, it should provide closure for both of you. Good luck!!