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I'm in the middle of a rebound relationship that's falling apart. (we both knew it was a rebound and this isn't a surprise, nor a problem)

So one of my dearest friends, also my third serious girlfriend died the other day. I'm lost and confused as all hell, and my instincts take me to my most recent ex girlfriend to talk about this. I don't think she wants to talk to me, she's seeing another dude, ETC, however i'm completely ON FIRE to talk to her about my life. No contact has been in effect since new year's, my rebound knows she's a rebound and doesn't care about me, so i wouldn't want to talk to her about it, but it's absolutely killing me that i can't talk to the one i care about. Can i break it for this? Or is the independance i maintain going to serve me? I'm still lost.

LBP

I had a similar experience. She won't appreciate that you want to talk to her about this. She'll talk to you, she'll help, but she'll look on it as burdensome. Talk to your family, talk to your friends... Don't talk to her.

ForeverZero

I'm not really connected with my family. After my ex left me i ran out of friends, i made the mistake of making her my life instead of a part of it.

talaniman

So what does that tell you? no when you need someone you have no one. Whatever you do leave the ex alone. It would be selfish and very inconsiderate to break no contact for any reason and the rebound relationship? Thats who you should be talking to.

Allheart

Hi Forever,

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of this girl. So understandable you want to run and tell the ex, but Forever, it is not a good idea for YOU. To share something so painful and something that hurts you to your heart, with someone, who doesn't cherish the fact that you are sharing that part of you with them, can only do you more harm.

The one you are with now, may be a rebound, but you have had to build some kind of at least a frienship. The important thing is to talk to someone about this pain, but the ex, would not be the one.

We are always here as well Forever. Again, so very sorry.

Allheart