will she or will she not come back

realsteve · #1 May 18, 2008, 01:09 PM

hello
my name is steve my GF broke up with me last wensday night after 22 years

we have 2 giles one 19 and other 17 ok i start from the beginning we started going out with each other on my 18th things wear fantasic as thay always are wean you 1st start to date someone you love anyway we had the 2 giles and wean thay wear around 6 and 4 she had a fling but came down and told me the same night she started it ask me to move out so i did got my owen place and had full access to my kids well 1 1/2 years passed and we managed to get back together wich was grate we then moved to biger house we both got good jobs then i got made redudent then another job came up now im not saying im perfect no one is if they say they are then they are lieing well im one of this ppl something new comes up then all my attn goes to that or if a m8 needs me wont herstate to help anyway we moved to kent we wear ok for a bit then things started to go a little down hill wean i done my back in at work and was off for a year then was due to go back and the work doc said no another 6 moths will i just coudent live on ssp so i qwit and i was in and out of temp work for a bit . ok i like playing pc games to well . maybe thats the prob never shod the love for her . ok i think ive worked it out but tell me if im wrong may be she was siting their and thourt this is not for me sitting hear for the reest of my life so maybe thats why she just up and left me ??
i do love so much and ive realised that i have bean negleting her so now i have gave up pc games and started to turn over a new leaf even my kids have noticed hoping that she will give me a second chance can any body give me any answer to my plea

realsteve · May 18, 2008, 01:43 PM

the kids live with me and i have the house she just said she whats a new life for her seif so she has gone to her mums till she can get a place
and no we never got married as her mum has bean married 4 times and it all broke down . but as she saide she did not what to marry but i can understand her wean she saide no to marrige what with her mum exp

realsteve · May 18, 2008, 10:57 PM

well ty but have broke ice with her yesterday i spoke to her on phone nice and polite explained to her that if this is what she whants then i have to acept it im not going to beg you to come back but you no my phone numbers and you no wear we live but all i get is im not back i ned a new life but we can still be friends for the kids .

but i just can not sea how she can just throw 22 years away just like that
as i say in previous post ive realised my mistake and ive turned over a complete new leaf if only she can sea that my kids have but then they live with me well for now till they get their owen place but i just can not stop think about her i have bean going out allot more seing friends havent sean for ages dontno if thats good or bad but then i drive in to the car park just hoping to come home and she has come back to give me just that 2nd chance dose any one get a 2nd chance or is it defiantly over ???

talaniman · May 19, 2008, 04:21 AM

No one can know what happens next in life, and dwelling on what if does no good, but to drive us crazy. Stay focused on what is in front of you, and be ready for ANYTHING. Spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically, these are the areas to get healthy in.



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