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aliciababee · Jun 4, 2007, 01:56 PM

OK. I haven't been with my boyfirend for very long five months a few days ago. We love each other a lot which sounds crazy but its true. When we met I was into lots of drugs and he helped me get out of it. A while ago I went to check the history on my moms computer to see if she had been looking in to sending me away again. She wasn't but my boyfriend had been looking at a whole bunch of girls just from our town on face party. He stopped but yesterday he was being very suspicious on the computer if I looked at him he would close the window. I went to check what he was looking at and it was this girl that we have been hanging out with every weekend at my friends house I keep catching him looking at her but I don't say anything. One night I didn't come out so I am guessing that's when they were talking because he needed her last name to be looking at her pictures on Facebook they never talk when I'm around. I love him a lot and he says to all his friends I'm the one he is going to marry. I don't know what to do. Should I bring it up because its tearing me apart if we broke up I don't know what I would do the only friends I have are from my past drug life :mad: Thanks for listening

purple-hearts · Jun 4, 2007, 03:16 PM

This is confusing, he helps you off the drugs, then looks up other girls in your area, it doesnt sound right.
talk to him and tell him what you know, and see what he says, you will know if he is lying.

Rockabilly1955mama · Jun 4, 2007, 03:24 PM

You need to talk to him and tell him the way you feel about this. There is no better answer then this.

Communication is key.

Makiavelic76 · Jun 4, 2007, 05:38 PM

The fact his checking a girl in guestbook web isn't enough reason to think wrong. Try not to be so insecure about him because this might be scaring him off. Sometimes the sense of being walking over eggs in a relationship, its not the right feeling to keep the love for long haul.

Allow me to congratulate you for your incredible work and heart of leaving the drug world behind. You must need the right people around your now, and if he support you over a dark age of yours and he's still with you and loving you, well, he cares lots about you. You should take care of him and be proud of him.

Trust you self first in order to trust another. If his web browsing is making you discomfort, try to define that (suspicious or jealousy or both), then talk to him openly.

Wish you the best and stay on the real thing