My Insecurities
Hi, I Am A 45 Yr Old Woman Who Got Married Again Almost A Yr Ago, After Being Alone For 2 Yrs. My First Husband Passed Away. I Met My Husband Online In August 2004, We Were Married August 2006. We Have A Dream Come True For Both Of Us. But I Have Insecurities.I Love Him More Then Anything In This World And I Know He Loves Me. He Is A Wonderful Man, Treats Me Good And Our Lovemaking Is Out Of This World. Within The Last 3 Months, We Met A Friend Online And Talked To Her Quite Often Online And On The Phone. Lately He Has Been Talking To Her All The Time And I Was Getting Upset Because She Was Taking All His Time. Her Time Zone Is 3 Hours Different Then Ours And She Has Small Children, So Time On The Phone Through The Day(our Time) Is Hard For Her And As A Result They End Up Talking Til 4 Or 5 Am Our Time And I End Up Going To Bed Alone. That's The Major Issue, I Don't Like Going To Bed Alone. I Totally Trust Him, It's the Females That Come Into Our Lives That I Don't Trust. My Husband Is A Wonderful Man With Great Charisma And I Have This Overwhelming Fear Of Losing Him. As A Result This Is Causing Problems In Our Relationship. I Shouldn't Feel The Way I Do Because This Woman Has A Boyfriend That Will Be Living With Her And Is Almost 20 Yrs Younger Then My Husband. I HAVE BEEN LEAVING HIM ALONE AND LETTING HIM HAVE HIS PRIVACY AND OUR RELATIONSHIP SEEMS TO BE GETTING BETTER, BUT I STILL FEEL INSECURE. ANY ANSWERS TO HELP SOLVE MY ISSUES WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED.
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