[STJimmy2112]

I'm a 13 year old male and I'm confused about my sexuality. When I think about boys I get a sort of tingly feeling, you know "Down there" and when I think about girls I get an erection. I think I might just be bi-curious but I'm really not sure. I know no one but me can answer my question but a little advice please?

[talaniman]

You have plenty of time to figure it out for yourself, no hurry, just be a good human, and don't do anything stupid until you do. Then be a better human that knows what he is about. Your right nobody can tell you what you are, maybe its all the above, or none of the above. Sexuality is a small part of a person despite the intensity, and one should never be define by sexuality, but by character, words, and deeds. Just don't expect others to know that though, because there are some silly, stupid humans both young and old that are clueless about... everything. They get a tingle in the dingle and go nuts!

You'll see. By stupid I mean make babies, and that I tell ALL 13 year olds. Life is complicated, and confusing enough at your age. Always THINK with the head on your shoulders, before you follow what the other head is saying, no matter where you fall on the spectrum of human sexuality.

Got it? Hope so, because you will be TESTED!

8D

[Oliver2011]

If you are gay, straight, or bisexual, those things are only a small part of what makes you the person everyone knows and appreciates. If you are gay, labeling yourself or letting others label yourself as gay and only gay is not giving you credit for all the other things you are. You are probably a good friend to people, a good son to your parents, maybe a good singer, baseball player or whatever. All of the things that you are make you, not just your sexuality. So make sure you take credit for being all those things and like whoever you want and feel you want to like.