There's a woman I have been friends with for a long, long time. Friends only. We have been there for each other when needed. This is one of the few people in the world that I know, with no doubt in my mind, that I can count on. A person like this is hard to find. Anyway, I was forced to choose...she didn't like my friend. Too bad. Someone that has been there with no strings...someone that was there to listen if that's all I needed...someone that means as much to me as she does, and you are going to make me choose because you don't like her simply because you are jealous? Yeah, that will never work out well for anyone. So no, the friend stayed.
I also found it funny in my case...my friend had done nothing wrong to make anyone jealous so I felt like it was more of a control issue...to see how well I was wrapped around her finger. She found out I wasn't wrapped around any finger at all. Looks like that is how it is going for you as well.
Never make anyone choose. If you are jealous and can't handle it, you simply need to break up. If you are jealous and there is a reason for it, again, you need to break up. It's simple really.
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