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    Elizabeth19 Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 22, 2013, 12:28 PM
    Why do I hate my boyfriend?
    I've been with my boyfriend for like 4 months now and we've been really good together, we used to hang out all the time, our sex was great and now I want nothing to do with him.

    Basically I pissed him off a couple nights ago when I was at a friends house. Apparently I'm supposed to tell him exactly who Im hanging out with. He found out a guy he doesn't like was there and he came to my friends house freaking out on me, telling me if I didn't leave with him we were over. So I told him we were over then because they're my friends he can't pick who I hang out with. He left, but came back two more times through out the night crying and shaking and just being stupid!

    After that night I've hated him. I can't stand when my phone goes off and it's him. I hate seeing him, I hate him touching me, I hate him telling me he loves me, I hate him wanting to hang out with me, and most of all I hate him talking about sex. Like today he kept sending me pictures of his penis and he kept telling me about all the things he wants to do to me tonight. I wanted to puke! He grosses me out and I don't know why. Is this a phase or what?
    He literally makes me sick and I'm not even the slightest bit attracted to him anymore! Ugh I can't stand him! Help!
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    JudyKayTee Posts: 46,503, Reputation: 4600
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    Feb 22, 2013, 12:49 PM
    I don't understand the problem. Tell him it's over, don't contact you every again.

    You are asking why you hate him. I think you already know.

    He certainly has issues, and I wouldn't allow him to make those issues my issues.
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    Feb 22, 2013, 01:24 PM
    Why stress like that. Just move on. Life is too short to have drama.
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    odinn7 Posts: 7,691, Reputation: 1547
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    Feb 22, 2013, 01:25 PM
    Judy is right as usual... you already know why you hate him. I think you are more wanting to know if this will continue or if you may like him again... and maybe if you are wrong for not liking him now.

    He sounds like a jerk. He wanted to control you by who you could be with. I think there is probably more to his behavior than you have told us but even this much is enough. I think you finally had enough of his behavior and probably other stuff he does or has done was eating at you and you finally got to the end of it all.

    At this point, I don't think you will wind up liking him again. Tell him it's over. This is not just a bump in the road so end it and move on.

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