[mat11]

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year now, I just graduate high school and she's doing her last year. Our relationship has been great we've never had a fight besides the odd arugment here and there, and we always have a great time together. No matter what it is. We also share a lot of interests. It is almost the perfect relationship, were always happy together and talk a lot. But recently, someone very close to her, and very close family friend she's known her whole life passed away. Its been about 2 weeks since he passed. I went to the funeral with her. But she hasn't really opened up to me about hime and how she feels, I ussualy try to keep her mind off it. She knows I care though. Anyway, we hungout 2 days straight and a day after, she phones me crying saying she doesn't think we can be together, because she feels like she can't open up to me. I told her she could! And I was confused why she couldn't, I've been here for her the whole time! Even styed home instead of going on vaction for her, but she inists that I don't understand her and she can't open up to me. She then said she needed time and space.. And even said maybe we take a break, separate for a while. She also said maybe we breakup. She says it's a big deal and if she can't open up to me, we can't be together. But she also said she loves me so much. I don't get it, I'm constantly there for her, make her happy, amd we love each other so much. But she's thinking about ending it all over this. Somebody please give me advice and help me. Thanks.

[Sparklex0]

Give her some space, maybe she feels like your too clingy and that she needs some space to grieve the loss of her friend. It also could be that she feels bad because your giving up vacations for her and things like that. Just give it some time and things will fall back into place with time if they are meant to be.