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carcrashedheartgurl · Feb 16, 2007, 11:45 AM

I'm having a huge confusing problem right now. I'm still not over my ex-boyfriend.
You see, I broke up with him in early December and for some reason I though it was a HUGE mistake. It was a long distance relationship. We went to middle school together and I had to move. We later met again on MYSPACE. We called each other every night and We were, well I was really happy.
I broke up with him because he told me he had feelings for a girl up there.I over reacted and I told him we were done. I didn't really mean it but I guess he thought I did.We said that we would still be close friends, but we grew FAR apart.
The next day he texted me and told me that he asked that girl he like out, so now they are together, I was devistated that he moved on so fast. After all the things he said to me, that we were going to meet up after high school, get married, make a family, and then my heart just gets thrown in the trash can! I got over the fact that he got over me really fast but, it still hurts everynow and then.
I called him on his birthday and wished him a happy birthday and he said thank you and we talked for a while. We talked every now and then, but then one day I asked him why we we'nt those best friends we were in middle school and we got in a huge fight. We called each other names and said we hated each other. We blocked each other on myspace so I'm not even able to see his picture anymore.
BUt for some weird reason, he texted me the other night. It was about 2 weeks after the HUGE fight. He sent me a picture of him and I started crying because I missed seeing his face. He texted me like nothing happened, why did he text me after saying all of those rude things and we both said that we hated each other, so WHY??

I'm so confused!:confused:

limey34 · Feb 17, 2007, 05:48 PM

Your friend was just angry, that's all, like you must have been also to tell him you hate him like that. Anger is an emotion like sadness or love and each person handles these emotions differently. He is probably embarrassed by his behaviour and just wants to move on. People say stupid things in the heat of the moment and to have to relive the moment again at a later date is embarrassing more than anything else, so he probably prefers to pretend like it never happened. Give him a chance cause he is obviously still interested in you. Long distance relationships are hard for anybody, adults included. If he continues to act like a jerk, then maybe you will have to decide if you really need this person in your life.

JoeCanada76 · Feb 17, 2007, 05:57 PM

Its not really moving on so fast when there is not a true relationship when it is long distance. He probably hates the way you reacted, but since it is not a real true relationship and live far apart. At least he was honest with you that he like somebody close by and you freaked out on him. So he was honest and upfront and you did not treat him that well. Long distance is hard, I know I have done it.

It is better for you to let go of this. You will find somebody, or in the future maybe get together again you never know, but the best bet is to go and have some fun and enjoy your single time. When the right time comes you will meet somebody else that you can actually be truly close to.

Good luck.

Joe

Ashes92 · Feb 19, 2007, 09:33 PM

He obviously felt bad and tried to muster up the courage to began repairing your relationship again.

cherylscott · May 14, 2007, 02:25 AM

Maybe he still does like you an that he just needed some one to block out the pain when you finished him so he went to her an now he knows he made a big mistake men work in different ways they like to have the power so when you finished him he knew you had it. I hope you either get over him or you get back together. You should invite him round and just sit and talk about your feelings for each other