[simpleboy]

I dating with my girlfriend 3 years. When I slept with her she didn't have virginity. First 2 month she said that she had sex with 1st boyfriend. Then she said she had sex with 2nd boyfriend. Then after all she says that she get raped and she never sleep with ex-boyfriends.. Should I believe to her? I really messed up

[Silver Lining]

If she really said she was raped, ask her who raped her, when, and why didn't she complain about it. Also why she lied to u? Get answers and take your decision based on that answer.

[talaniman]

Why is any of this important or even your business, and why are you pressing her to explain her lack of being a virgin? I would be messed up to if I pressed someone the way you did, and kept getting different answers. She is obviously trying to put you off, with something you can deal with.

That usually happens when you don't believe the original story, and keep pressing for more details. So drop it.

[mmresd]

Stop asking for past sexual experience, just enjoy your time with her. If she has something bothering her, just be there when SHE feels like discussing those things. Stop pressuring her.

[Fr_Chuck]

I agree, does it matter if she had sex with them. Too many "ifs" women who are raped often don't like to talk about it, and may not want to tell. So it was easier to lie and said she had sex with boyfriend, and not admit she was raped.

BUT> perhaps she had sex with those two boyfriends and maybe others ( who cares) but you keep asking and bother and making a big deal out of it. So she now say she was raped to just SHUT YOU UP. So stop talking about it, stop asking her and don't worry. That was the past and is none of your business anyway.

[geminichick]

I don't understand why it is so important to you that she wasn't a virgin when you were with her. How would you feel if she probed you about your past sexual experiences. Honestly, it really isn't any of your business. Just let it be.