Originally Posted by
Magen_Marie15
I started dating this guy on August 25th..he had asked me out...he ended up getting put in jail in the middle of september..
August 25 to middle of September? We’re talking 3 weeks? You honestly waited over 4 months for a guy that went to jail that you knew for 3 weeks. Huh?
Originally Posted by
Magen_Marie15
i waited all of this time for him to get out...he called me 5 times while he was in there and we wrote eachother once...
You mean when he was bored and had nothing to do or no place to go because it was jail?
Originally Posted by
Magen_Marie15
the last time i talked to him on the phone while he was in there i had asked him if we were still ganna be together when he got out...he said why would you even ask that ...of course...
Of course. I mean if you can’t trust a guy you went out with for 3 weeks before he went to jail then who can you trust?
Originally Posted by
Magen_Marie15
well now hes out...he didnt even call when he got out..i found out from his friend that he was out..so i talked to him that night and he talked to me for a little bit and then told me that he would call me back either later that night or the next day..he never did..and i can't get awhold of him...his house phone and his cell phone is disconnected and i dont know what to do
You mean his phones have been disconnected because he’s
A. Irresponsible.
B. Has not the financial means to pay them.
C. On the run.
D. All of the above.
My money’s on D.
Originally Posted by
Magen_Marie15
...im sure that he couldve found a way too call me these past 3 days
Yes he could have.
Originally Posted by
Magen_Marie15
and im tired of waiting ..ive already waited 4 months for him...so what am i supposed to do?::(
Be happy that a loser like that is not apart of your life. That person literally has no value in himself, so what kind of value can he offer you? He’ll show up again when he needs a place to hide, crash, or bail money.
I’d rather be alone than to be with someone like that, that will bring you down.
Magan, my dear you are probably young and I’m going to guess this was the first guy that came along and paid attention to you. I’m here to tell you that is not your type. That is not anybody’s type. Any man that comes alone and will not bring value to your life is not a man worth getting involved with. If he has self destructive behavior then he will transfer that behavior to you. You can not bring some else up, they can only bring you down. Don’t even try.