[sodaspritz]

I was dating a guy for 2 months. All was going well on my side and as far as I could tell on his side too, he was telling me that he hasn't been so happy in along time and his soul was content. We did have a issue a few weeks into dating where he told me that he wanted to remain friends with his ex girlfriend. I told him that I wasn't comfortable with it and he said he wouldn't see her.
He took me to his parents house a couple times for the weekend and even wanted to me go with him over christmas, so in my head all was going great. When we get back over Christmas we stopped at the house to drop stuff off and than head out again. Well who is standing at the end of his driveway but his ex. He knew I was mad about it and told me that he wouldn't give up a friendship. I told him that if we where going to keep seeing each other than she could not be in the picture. We stayed together the next few days with tension in the air and on New Years eve day I ended it.
Well he calls her right away and she is to busy to talk to him.
He tells me that he still loves her and its not fair for me to make him make a choice. I really had feelings for this guy.
His ex told him that she was seeing someone else and he makes contact with me. He wants to see me and talk things over, he even called this morning and asked if I could spend the night on Thurs. I told him I would have to think about it, I don't want to be played again but I can't get him out of my mind.:confused:

[Copperhead6]

Don't be a fall back girl. You're the one that took him on the rebound so you should know the chance that you are taking. Be friends and let things build slow les you end up the victim of his broken heart!

[sodaspritz]

Thanks for the advice, I don't want to be used again. I did meet a guy that my friends set me up with and he's a really nice guy. I should forget about the ex and move on

[Copperhead6]

Your welcome. Do what's best for you! But if he is just looking for someone to hold at night so he isn't alone then you should move on until he gets his head cleared!

[talaniman]

Move on, but just as you where the rebound don't make some one else your rebound. Take time to get him out of your mind so you can move on and enjoy your life.

[chuff]

You only invested two months Move on or you'll just wind up in this cycle of dependancey.

[varaprasad]

It is all about rubbing flesh. then this is real nonsense. get a hold of yourself .Move on