Hi,
I recently asked a question to jrussole via pm regarding a response I read of her's in another thread created by Blazingcold.
Originally Posted by
Geoffersonairplane
I have a question, would you agree that many women go for the wild and crazy kind of guys in the 20 - 25 age bracket but then get treated badly and choose to go for the good men (sincere types)
What do you think about this? I seem to see these patterns in everyday life with women and perhaps men too..Its not a sexist thing..LOL
Geoff.
The answer and anology I quite liked was the following:
Originally Posted by
jrussole
I will put it to you this way, if you get too close to the fire, you'll get burned. So after a while you learn to stay away from the fire or step back from it so your shoes don't melt. And you find that it can be warm, and much more comfortable than being too close to wear you can get burned again.
When your in your twenties wild and crazy is just feeling your youth and the power of it. But it takes a real man to know that wild and crazy burns out quick and it takes a good man to know how to hold onto and sustain anything precious given to us in life.
I guess I was basing the question mainly on my own experience with a woman at this stage in her life but I have seen many other examples both here at AMHD and in my own life.
I thought that this explained my question perfectly and thought it would be useful for others to read also.
Geoff.:)